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3 Steps To Help Separate Yourself From The Crowd

3 Steps To Help Separate Yourself From The Crowd

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These days, being good at your job isn’t the only requirement for getting ahead in your career. If key people aren’t aware of you, you’ll likely miss out on opportunities to improve your skills and take on interesting assignments, despite your hard work and good performance”~ Mindtools.com.

 

So here are three hacks to help get noticed in a crowded world.

 

Vogue: Madonna said “when all else fails and you long to be something better than you are today..Vogue. We live in a visual world and people make first impressions of you within the first 4 seconds of meeting you so make it memorable.

Do you have a style or are you throwingagainst the wall? Are you playing it too conservative or going overboard? Men, a subscription to GQ won’t hurt. Ladies, you know best but I’ll give you my 2 cents anywho…go with the classics. Check out Allure’s list of the 12 Most Stylish Women of All Time.https://www.allure.com/galle…/most-stylish-women-style-icons .

 

Know Your Pop Culture: Become well versed on many different conversation starters (Television, movies, politics and music.) If you’re at a party or waiting in line to get coffee, you’ll always be in the mix of the conversation or be able to get one started.

 

In my Socially Speaking course, I always remind my clients not to be a One-Trick Pony. I mean it’s great if you know Spock was actually married once, to T’Pring, in season 2, episode 30, but it may be time to expand your wealth of knowledge beyond Star Trek. Yes?

 

Be A Human Rolodex: The more people you know, the farther you’ll go. Beth Kuhel, wrote in Forbes “If you have influence and share it with nine people, you increase your influence nine-fold.” In simplest terms, if you need something and I can help you, Im more valuable to you?Never burn your bridges. It does you no good to know people if you leave them with a bad taste in their mouth. Always take the high road, even on your way out. People have a way of circling back. My wife always says “burn the ships, but not the bridges.”

 

Captivate Yourself

Captivate Yourself

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We all work hard, but for what? To achieve a level of happiness of course. We each have those unique things that bring us joy. For me, it’s the quest for the ultimate mid-century party room to retreat and entertain guests.

It’s a reflection of my personality, and if I can captivate myself, I can captivate my friends. I don’t want the same thing everybody else has, I prefer to put my own unique stamp on the world and I encourage you to do the same. Fall in love with what really inspires you, not what everybody else has or does. Life is so much more FUN when you live it that way.

It’s Sunday in America

It’s Sunday in America

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It’s Sunday in America.

The first Sunday after a historic election. And whether you’re feeling elated or defeated, I think we can all agree that the country needs to come together. As Americans, we’ve always turned to sports to bond and unify us as one nation.

In this country we keep score. In this country we pride ourselves on competition. In this country we strive to be winners. And most certainly we look for inspiration from sports and the athletes who play them.

President George W. Bush gives a thumbs-up Tuesday, Oct. 30, 2001, as he stands on the mound at Yankee Stadium before throwing out the ceremonial first pitch in Game Three of the World Series between the Arizona Diamondbacks and the New York Yankees in New York. Photo by Eric Draper, Courtesy of the George W. Bush Presidential Library

I remember in late October 2001, just weeks after 9/11 when George W. Bush threw out the first pitch in game three of the World Series at Yankee Stadium. The nation needed a sign that we’d be OK, that we would go on. The former President recalls shortstop Derek Jeter telling him prior to taking the mound “Don’t bounce it, they’ll boo you.”

W threw a strike and we all came together.

In the aftermath of the 2013 bombing at the Boston Marathon, Big Papi took the microphone at Fenway Park and said “This is our f—ing city, and nobody is going to dictate our freedom. Stay strong.”

The crowd erupted in fist pumping cheers and we came together.

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While each of those moments will resonate in the minds of most sports fans, none can compare to the true heroism of what former Arizona Cardinals defensive back Pat Tillman did. In May of 2002, eight months after the attacks on the World Trade Center, Tillman turned down a 3.6 million dollar contract to enlist in the United States Army. He was just 25 years old, in the prime of his professional career.

He died in combat two years later.

What Tillman left in his legacy should be a shining example to all that freedom isn’t free. More importantly is that he embodied everything about American values that we are taught as kids. He was an undersized underdog who, with hard work and dedication, made his dream come true. He lived by example and not for headlines, even refusing to do interviews after announcing he was enlisting.

“He didn’t come into the league to be validated,” said former teammate Aeneas Williams. “Somewhere along the line, Pat already had in his own mind ‘I know who I am and this game won’t make me’. . . Money wasn’t a motivating factor. Being the best he could be was. And he was a loyal person. Nothing could change that values that he had.”

There are a couple ways you can take this message right now, as a sports fan or simply as an human being. But not matter which angle you choose, it all comes down to that one word, VALUES. You see, when I heard that quote by Williams, that Tillman knew who he was and didn’t need to be validated, it struck a chord in me.

How many of us can say that? Honestly. Can you think of one athlete today who might do what Tillman did? It seems as if we’re all searching for validation and many of us never really find out who we are. The truth eludes us. And that’s alright, Pat was a rare breed.

But why can’t we use his story for inspiration?KRT US NEWS STORY SLUGGED: USIRAQ-TILLMAN KRT PHOTOGRAPH BY MIKE HASKEY/COLUMBUS LEDGER-ENQUIRER (April 23) Specialist Pat Tillman, right, a former Arizona Cardinal, walks next to Captain Christoper Deale, company commander of B Company 1st BN 19th Infantry Regiment, during graduation ceremonies on October 25, 2002 at Fort Benning, Georgia. Tillman was killed in action in Afghanistan. (mvw) 2004

Another thing I found fascinating about Tillman was the fact that his brother in law said when people met him abroad and asked him what he did for a living, Tillman would simply say “I work in Phoenix”, never mentioning he was a professional football player.

But the thing that struck me most and stayed with me was listening to one of Tillman’s final interviews before he was deployed as they asked him what word he’d use to describe himself best, and how he would be remembered. He simply said PASSION. He wanted to be known as somebody who lived with passion.

So I ask you my friends, are you living with passion?pattillmanstatue

Wouldn’t it be nice if we could wake up everyday wired like Pat? Why can’t we? Seems to simply be a mindset to me. And the reality is that many of us do, in fact, get into that mindset every once in a while. But that’s just it, every once in a while. You see the difference between the Tillmans of the world and the rest of us is consistency. What drove him was the simple desire to be the best he could be…at everything. His ability to set goals and his willingness to sacrifice to achieve them is something to be admired and reminded. He lived by a set of values that he wouldn’t stray from or break for anybody, not when his high school coach told him he was too small to play football and not when his family and teammates attempted  to talk him out of enlisting.

It always comes back to passion. You could see it in his body language, running onto the field firing up the crowd with his helmet in his hand and his long hair swaying in the wind. You could hear it in his voice. In post-game interviews he was famous for saying “we kicked the s—t out of them” even though he knew it wasn’t proper for television audiences. But his passion came via his example. His actions after 9/11 trumped anything any athlete could say symbollically. And he paid the ultimate sacrifice.

Early in his career Tillman was asked, on a scale of 1-10, where do you perform best to keep your emotions in check? He said “an eight, except for when the National Anthem is playing, then I’m a 10.”

Pat Tillman is and always was a patriot. He lived his short life at a ten. Why can’t we?

 

Sep 5, 2013; Tempe, AZ, USA; Arizona State Sun Devils football team prepares to take the field behind a photograph of former player Pat Tillman (42) in the Tillman Tunnel before the game against the Sacramento State Hornets at Sun Devil Stadium. Mandatory Credit: Rob Schumacher/The Arizona Republic-USA TODAY Sports

 

Follow The Leader

Follow The Leader

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jesus-sermononthemount-by-bloch-3Wouldn’t you agree that the goal of every great leader is to create more leaders? Or should we say, more teachers perhaps?

It’s been said that the greatest teacher of all time was in fact just a simple carpenter.

However, Jesus never picked up a pen. Never wrote down a single word. Yet his teachings have been published more than any other book. More than two billion people adhere to his words some 2000 years after his death.

Juxtapose him with Genghis Khan, the great Mongolian ruler, known for his brutality as a savage warrior. He conquered lands four times the size of those taken by Alexander the Great, ruling the largest empire ever established, stretching from the Caspian Sea to the Sea of Japan, spanning over 700 tribes and cities.

Yet he was illiterate and could neither read nor write.

 

how-to-draw-genghis-khan-genghis-khan_1_000000015331_5Their commonality? Obviously not their penmanship or social media savvy. Yet they possessed an ability to move people to action that was unprecedented at their time and still impresses us today in the modern era.

Although diametrically opposed, these two historical figures ability to lead, be it via savagery or love, spoke volumes about their ability to transcend the pages of history. The benevolent preacher of Bethlehem and the brutish barbarian of Asia led people to action massive action, one with kindness and an army of 12, the other with savagery and a fighting force of more than 120,000.

I’m going to go out on a limb here and guess that those of you reading this neither have the wisdom of Jesus nor the ferocity of Khan, but don’t worry that doesn’t exempt you from being an epic leader.

But I will ask you these questions; How are you leading today? Your family? Your business? Yourself?

No matter where you are on a scale of one to 10, there is room to improve. And to help you, I’m going to give you three of my favorite things to concentrate on if your goal is indeed to be a better leader.

 

BE RESOLUTE

One of my favorite leaders in history is Margaret Thatcher. Dubbed the “Iron Lady,” she was the first female Prime Minister of Great Britain and the longest serving Prime Minister of the 20th century, serving from 1975-1990.

Margaret Thatcher, British Conservative Prime Minister from 1979 to 1990, circa 1990. (Photo by Terry O'Neill/Hulton Archive/Getty Images)

Not known as a dynamic speaker early in her career, she gained respect instead for being courageous and resolute in her ideals and decision making. A person of conviction who was known for not following the crowd and making the hard decisions. Leading Britain out of a recession and assisting Ronald Reagan in the ending of the Cold War, Thatcher was never short on chutzpah.

She was bold. She was brash. She was ahead of her time, serving during a period when the glass ceiling was still very much in tact, gaining power 40 years prior to Hillary Clinton’s history making nomination here in the states. Thatcher herself is on record for saying there would never be a female Prime Minister in her lifetime…until she proved herself wrong.

One of my favorite quotes of hers is “Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren’t.”

 

WALK THE WALK

The best teachers lead by example, they not only talk the talk, they walk the walk. Being a leader is a lot more difficult than standing on a soapbox and telling people what they should be thinking, although I know somebody on 1600 Pennsylvania Ave who does a pretty good job of it.

However, there was a former resident at that same address who epitomized the notion.

Theodore Roosevelt was born into a prominent New York City family. The Roosevelts were socialites, certainly considered higher class. Young Theodore attended Harvard University and would become Assistant Secretary of the Navy. But that’s where the story begins. He solidified his place in history as a courageous leader of men by fighting side by side on the battlefield with the men he commanded. He certainly didn’t believe in asking things of his men which he wasn’t willing to do himself, even if that meant risking his life.

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You’ve heard of the famous Rough Riders with which he rode during the Spanish American War?  They called him “the Bullmoose” or “the Lion”, sometimes even “the Happy Warrior”, and indeed he kept parts of his socialite past, even going so far as to have his military uniform tailored by Brooks Brothers. But on the other hand Teddy, as most of us know him today, wasn’t afraid to get it dirty and mix it up.

In June 1898, while leading troops in an advance toward the San Juan River, Roosevelt took shrapnel to the wrist when a bomb blew up by him. He pushed on, riding his horse until they reached a wire fence. From there he dismounted and led a charge up what was known as Kettle Hill. Of the five men he charged with, three fell wounded among gunfire. Roosevelt, returned to his line and heatedly confronted the remaining men for not following.

Offering a few choice words of encouragement, he returned to the font lines and held his position.

That was certainly his M.O., choosing actions over words. But when he spoke, it was powerful. One of his more famous lines that has resonated throughout history and is still used quite often today is “speak softly and carry a big stick”. Personally, being a huge proponent of personal responsibility, I find that my favorite line from the 25th President is “If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you wouldn’t sit for a month.” In other words, don’t blame others, look inward.

Brilliant!

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VISION


Where there is no vision, the people perish. —Proverbs 29:18

So perhaps you see it, but do the ones you’re leading see it?

Casting a vision is crucial to achieving success at any level, and here is where this story gets a little personal.

Lets go back four years. My wife and I are new parents of a six-month-old baby girl. We’re living a “good life” but not a “great life”, each working 50 plus hours a week while doing our best doubling down as day care providers to our newborn child.

We’re living over 500 miles away from our closest relatives and struggling to find our niche in life. At the time, we were five months into a side project which was beginning to get our attention. What began as some extra income to pay our utility bills was quickly escalating into a blossoming career, nearly replacing both our salaries.

One day at a January convention in Phoenix my wife and I hear a man speak his vision to the attentive audience. To “free the world from both physical and financial pain”. His wife joins him on stage and adds “we are a legacy company, something that will be around for your children’s children.”

My wife and I confidently look at one another and say to each other the same thing, “we are all in!”

We leave the so-called safety of corporate America and do just that, go all in.

But why? The reason was vision. We saw another couple stand in front of us that day and articulately lay out a vision for their company that included us and the role we could play in it. That was important to us. They spoke to our spirits and our heart’s desires. So much so that we “burned the ships” and said we either do this or die trying.

But it was the vision. A clear and concise statement delivered with conviction and certainty that pushed us in that direction so willingly.

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In author Dan Quiggle’s book Lead Like Reagan he says “those around you are listening for the way in which you articulate vision, analyzing whether they think they can fulfill it, and deciding what role they could or should play in it. They are gauging your level of passion and enthusiasm, and based on that, they will determine the level of energy or effort they want to exert in helping fulfill it.”

At that conference, the vision was said with such passion and confidence that my wife and I decided we’d play a major role.

One of the most influential motivators in my life has been Author Lisa Nichols. Having read her books, hearing her speak several times and being coached one-on-one by her on a special occasion, I often seek out her wisdom when it comes to leadership. And one thing that Nichols said kept resonating with me over and over during the last couple years since taking that leap of faith. She said “people are more comfortable with a familiar discomfort than they are with an unfamiliar new possibility.”

Wow, how true is that?

My wife and I continually refer to it as “groundhog day syndrome.” It’s very much like Albert Einstein’s famous definition of insanity; doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. Yet it happens, in my opinion, a majority of the time, to most people. They fear taking the lead so they do the opposite, they follow. The follow the path of monotony right to their grave.

I often ask myself what if”, what if that couple didn’t cast that vision that day? Where would I be?

Certainly not here, talking to you.

 

Men are myopic. Women are from Kaleafornia

Men are myopic. Women are from Kaleafornia

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He has a white wife-beater that lets him know when he’s had one six-pack too many.

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She reads books about how to deal with feelings and inner conflict.

He reads books on how to fix things and make powerful presentations.
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She just wants a spa day getaway to get a facial and pedicure.

He wants just three hours to himself to watch the game uninterrupted.

 

She wants the automatic transmission and the pearl white paint.

He wants the manual 5-speed and matte black finish.

 

The good Lord simply made us different didn’t He….or She?

 

Men have one X chromosome and one Y chromosome while women have two copies of the X chromosome. And wouldn’t ya know, the X chromosome carries a bigger instruction manual. Imagine that. And since women have two of them, well, you’re gonna need a bigger instruction manual as well.

 

While we can’t agree on most things, what we can agree on is that we’re better off with one another than without. But how do we, as James Ingram sang it, “make the magic last for more than just one night?”

 

So, for just once, I’m gonna figure out what we’ve been doing wrong.

The Guys

(A) We’re myopic. In fact, you might say we have a one-track mind. It can be downright primal at times. It’s that whole silly “survival of the species” embedded into our DNA I suppose. Pesky, isn’t it? Always getting in the way of what’s really important. Well, we didn’t invent yoga pants, you did, and that really didn’t help at all.

 

(2) We’re not the best conversationalists. Nobody will mistake us for Oprah on a couch that’s for sure. We follow the (Noun-verb- adjective-Noun) format, again from the Cro-Magnon days. “You make pretty woman for me….I hunt delicious animal” and that’s about as far as we go. I can be fairly sure that superlatives, antecedents and reciprocal pronouns were most likely invented by females. The disjunct, (a type of adverbial adjunct that expresses information that is not considered essential to the sentence it appears in) definitely was.

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(D) We can be unorganized, perhaps even lacking the attention to detail which you require to exist. You know, when the throw pillows don’t accent the couch just right…the important stuff in life. We have to take some of the blame here guys. We invented plumbing centuries ago, but never thought to make pipes big enough for certain things? Sure, she sheds like German shepherd in the summer leaving fuzzy clumps that could be mistaken for small animals, but it’s always our beard trimming that seem to clog the sink.

 

Now for the LADIES:

 

(1) Your attention to hygiene can be a little over the top. A scrub is somebody who doesn’t live up to his draft position, not a hygiene product. It’s called soap. And it contains…you guessed it, soap. We don’t need avocado and sugar to get our faces and armpits clean. That’s food. And what’s Jojoba? I must’ve heard it a thousand times and still have no idea what it is. All this time I thought it was Cerrano’s voodoo statue from Major League.cerrano1

 

(2) We may be, as my wife calls it, “blissfully unaware”. She claims to be aware of all things at all times. “Like how many diapers are in the diaper bag” I asked? “No” she said, “like if your kids have food to eat that day.” Oh, yea, whoops. I guess this goes back to that DNA. If we got hungry in the dinosaur days, we killed something and ate it, we didn’t have to make reservations two days in advance. But now I have to know how many slices of bread are left in the loaf on any given morning, if there is toilet paper on the rack or when the recycle truck comes? Seems a bit OCD to me.

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(3) This obsession with kale. What gives? A big kale salad. Baked kale snacks. A spinach and kale smoothie. Changing the name of our 31st state to Kaleafornia? When does it stop? A good friend of mine coined the hardy cabbage “your colon’s toothbrush” a name I certainly consider befitting. Last time I gave it a go it cleaned me out faster than a Jimmy Choo sale on Hautelook. I feel kale is like Hillary Clinton’s conscience, nobody even knew it existed until just recently and now it seems we will be forced to swallow it everywhere we turn. BARF!

 

So there ya have it. The differences in the sexes, easily dissected. Enjoy them while they are still around.

Ten steps to boost your confidence

Ten steps to boost your confidence

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“Action is the high road to self esteem and confidence. Where it is open, all energies flow towards it. It comes readily to most people and its rewards are tangible.”  Bruce Lee

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If there is one thing in life you can never have enough of, it’s confidence.

It permeates into every nook and cranny of your existence. Your job, your friendships and your marriage. But it seems as if far too many of us are lacking in it for some reason or another. It is because the images we see in the media seem to hold everybody to such a high standard or perhaps its deeply rooted in some misfortune or relationship from your past.

Regardless of why, the fact is confidence is essential to our personal growth and happiness and its never too late to grab yourself a healthy dose of it.

But how?

Here is my top 10 list of ways to gain more of it:

10. Win the daily battle – Each day that you lift your leg out of the bed and place your foot on the ground, you enter the game of life. You’ve heard “Carpe Diem” about a billion times right? It means “Seize the Day”…..so why aren’t you? You don’t have to see the whole road, just 10 feet in front of you. So begin each day by saying I’m going to win it. And that could mean anything, it’s really up to you.

Obama family arrives at US Capitol prior to inauguration swear-in9. Take a self inventory– Look in the mirror. To some, it’s a place of fear. To others, it’s a place they spend too much time. I neither expect you to be afraid or to be a narcissist. But I do want you to look at it. No sound. No distractions. No make up. No pretense. Spend 3 minutes making eye contact with yourself from time to time. Look at the intricacies of your eyeball; get deep into the colors and texture. Find your soul, your “humanness” if you will. And when you do this, realize that you have one chance to make this life work. You’re no different than anybody else; the only thing that separates the haves from the have-nots is seeing the real value in whom we are.

8. Take a poll– Sometimes we are our harshest critics; our own worst enemy; not giving ourselves enough credit for being extraordinary in our own way. So ask some friends, a relative or your spouse, “What is special about me?” or “Why do you admire me?” Allow others to feed your spirit and boost your confidence. I bet you’ll surprise yourself with the feedback you get.

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7. Body Language– This is a biggie! Are you paying attention to your posture? Noticing how you enter a room? How do you stand during a conversation? Probably not aware of it are you? Well, my advice is to become a master of it. Shoulders back, chin up, entering a room with your eyes open and a smile on your face. When you’re speaking to somebody, be relaxed but ground yourself, your power in anything comes from your core (belly area) and your hips. Regardless of male or female, we want to assert ourselves as confident and that begins with your body.

6. Replacing negative thoughts with empowering ones – How many stories are in your head? Truthful ones, and ones that you’ve created. Next time you find yourself feeling less confident or even depressed, stop and ask why. Does the thought or feeling have grounds for approval or is it you overthinking your own self? This isn’t anything new, any self help book will talk about this technique. Tony Robbins has made a career on “pattern interrupt”, replacing negative thoughts or habits with positive ones.

5. Dress for success. Knowledge is power but so it a well tailored 3-piece suit or a little black dress.  . Designer Yves Saint Laurent once said “I have always believed that fashion was not made only to make women more beautiful, but also to reassure them and give them more confidence“.  This is true for both male and females. So go out and find your confidence with style and dress the part. With all of the high fashion outlets like Nordstrom Rack and Off 5th (two of my favorites) you don’t have to break the bank to look amazing.

4. Take a course in Martial Arts– Yea, that’s right. If it sounds silly or out of your comfort zone, it’s even more reason to do so. Martial Arts is all about self discipline and self confidence. Learn how to take somebody down physically and watch how your posture changes. I watched my four-year old daughter grow her confidence every day by going through the discipline of Tae Kwon Do. It is the original self-help guide.angelarms

3. Take Action – How appropriate that we follow up No. 4 with a quote from the greatest martial artist ever. Bruce Lee once said, “Action is the high road to self esteem and confidence. Where it is open, all energies flow towards it. It comes readily to most people and its rewards are tangible.” Taking action, even small action, helps prove to oneself that life is moving in the right direction. We test ourselves each day, and often the test is simply one of taking action, whether it be picking up a phone or a dumbbell, the consequences of action are results and movement, even if it isn’t always positive, its still movement.

2. Exercise – Every day we are presenting. Regardless of your profession, you present yourself to the world each day. I think we can all agree that the body you present in makes a significant difference in ones confidence. So the physical part of looking leaner, perhaps with more tone or muscle is a no-braniner when it comes to building massive amounts of self esteem. And guess what, its free. Running, walking, push ups, dips…you cant use money as an excuse. And further more, aside from the physical part, the endorphins and mental rush you get after an intense or even moderate sweat or pump go a long way in signaling to yourself that you’re ready for whatever comes your way.

1. Faith – If you’re embedded in your faith, then there is confidence. Because you who know God and walk in his path know what he has promised you. As evidence, lets look at one of ththejake_061012e most popular verses in the bible Philippians 4:24 “I can do all things through Him who strengthens me”. How bout Isaiah 41:10 “Fear not for I am with you, be not dismayed for I am your God. I will strengthen you. I with help you. I will uphold you with my righteous hand”. Surely some of you were reading with anticipation toward No.1 and may be disappointed with the answer. Perhaps you were expecting some grand truth about enlightenment that would change your world. Well, I assure you. You got it

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